Half term is here, and I’m trying to be a good Mum and making a list of things we should do together to fill our time. I’m mindful of packing in travel, outdoor activities, nature, crafts and of course lots to do with Halloween.
Then I stopped and thought – what do the children actually want from their half term holidays? I often like to read about kids’ perspectives on things – why am I not just asking my own kids?
Of course, small children don’t always know what’s best for them, and would maybe just veg out and eat Haribo all day, every day if we allowed them, without any thought for fresh air or good nutrition, so we often have to intervene. But it’s an interesting exercise anyway, I think.
Here is the list of what my kids want to do for Half Term:
Carve our pumpkins
Make our Halloween costumes
Watch a Halloween movie (Beetlejuice or Ghostbusters are top of the list)
Make some videos and edit them (they want to make more ‘Look Inside’ videos, and Hugo got a green screen for his birthday so wants to learn how to use that too)
Go to a Halloween party (their football club is holding one)
I asked them if they wanted to go anywhere – I had in mind Alnwick Castle for my little Harry Potter fans, Preston Park for some Halloween crafts, maybe a woodland walk, beach…? They met my suggestions with a shrug, a “yeah, could do”, but very little enthusiasm.
My children are tired. They have found the first half term back at school quite exhausting. I have busy boys who work hard and play hard! Hugo has had a birthday which we all shared an exciting weekend away to Edinburgh for, and a very full-on school camp for a long weekend which he is still recovering from. Both children have thrown themselves back into sport wholeheartedly since the summer break. They need a rest!
And why not? Do we really need to be on the go constantly? Do we need to be travelling, exploring, running about like crazy? Yes, it’s nice to do, but sometimes we all need a break.
So I’m listening to what my children are telling me. OK, I’m not going to let them laze about in pyjamas for the whole week, but I am going to take it easy.I need that too. I think that slowing down and taking our time over the things we really want to do together will help keep stress levels down and fights to a minimum too, so that we can just enjoy being together. I do hope so!
There may just be a blog or vlog post (or two) coming from us in the near future too!
This photo is from two years ago when we visited Alnwick Castle. We’re thinking of going again this Half Term, so I was looking back at the photos.
I almost didn’t notice at the time until I looked back on these photos, that Toby is standing on his tiptoes to try and be as tall as his brother! When I looked back at other photos, I realised he does this a lot. Poor little boy, trying to catch up!
They say pride comes before a fall, but I think being a proud Mum is perhaps excusable? My kids have made me very proud for various reasons recently, so that’s what I’m sharing today.
Hugo finally finished his school reading book ‘Moby Dick’ this week. He has really enjoyed reading it, and afterwards, we discussed why it was a classic and why he thought it had stood the test of time. Daddy told him about the hidden meaning of obsession and how it can be damaging. Hugo really took this on board. His level of understanding is becoming so sophisticated.
Toby’s Harvest Festival – our school has its harvest festival in Church, and it is a lovely service with the children leading the readings and prayers. I had a proud Mama moment as my little one, Toby, did a reading. The Church Altar was stacked with food donations for the local old persons’ Breakfast Club and the Food Bank.
I wanted to share with FTMOB this week but just didn’t get time to write a full post, but as Hugo was away at school camp, we took Toby out for a treat to Pizza Hut. He was so enthusiastic, and told me “I love it at Pizza Hut because, not only is the food great quality, but the staff are so friendly and helpful too!” A future blogger in the making?!
He also listened carefully to me bemoaning the fact that I don’t do more with the boys, and he reassured me “I bet lots of people with heart failure just sit around and don’t go out at all, but you try your best to do things with us all the time”. I felt so reassured that he appreciated the things I do with him, and also that he is learning to say kind things and make people feel better when they are sad. Another proud moment for me!
We have lots of ‘making’ plans for the half-term holiday, but have already made a start on Halloween costumes. This has been so much fun for Toby as he gets to basically rip up his clothes to become a zombie! Hugo has carefully drawn his design for me to create him a costume to be a dementor from Harry Potter. I’ve cheated a little and started with a Grim Reaper costume which I’m adding to with black cheesecloth type fabric. Photos to follow (probably next week!)
Here is a photo of Hugo, sharing the souvenir t-shirt he got from his school camp. He was incredibly brave and tried absolutely everything, including things very high up (zip slide, giant high swing, trapeze, climbing wall), very low down (caving, obstacle course, night wire), and lots in between! Here’s me, being a proud Mum again!
We’re back in the old routine of school, after school activities, weekend activities… all of that running around which takes lots of energy! The children have been back at school over a month now, and in fact we’re fast approaching Half Term. Phew – where does the time go?
Do your children have lots of extra-curricular activities?
Mine are sporty kids – we have football training on Wednesday and Saturday, plus a match on a Sunday. My eldest also has training for his school football team and a goalkeeper training session on top of that. They also both go skiing once a week.
I do wonder sometimes, just how much is too much? My children used to have swimming lessons too, but they chose to give it up. I was disappointed as swimming was such a good activity for them and such an important skill too. In another way though, I was relieved. We are doing something almost every day of the week, and once a school club or birthday party is thrown into the mix, suddenly we have no free time at all.
I know parents whose children do even more than mine. If children are particularly good at their sport, they can be asked to join more ‘professional’ teams, enter more tournaments or swimming galas. If you have two or more children with different interests too, it can be almost impossible to keep up. You can be pulled all over the region trying to get them to different activities.
I sometimes wish my children had pursued an interest in music more, but then I wonder, just when would we fit it all in? And where would we find the energy?
I often worry about good nutrition and keeping up energy levels with all these activities. That’s why I was very pleased to try some multi-vitamins from Swisse Nutrition. I worked in Clinical Nutrition for many years, so I know just how important good nutrition can be, especially for active children. It isn’t just a case of grabbing a sports drink to make sure energy levels are topped up. A good balance of vitamins, minerals and other nutrients are very important.
Of equal importance is that any nutritional supplements, as well as being complete and well balanced, actually taste good! I can’t tell you how many different supplements I’ve had turned down by my fussy children as they tasted or smelled funny! I am therefore delighted that my children find the Swisse Ultivite chewable supplements very palatable, and they are also in fun shapes which helps!
I can honestly say that so far, so good – taking the Swisse supplements has gone very well for us. My children have great levels of energy despite their busy school and sporting schedule, and thankfully haven’t even caught a cold so far since being back at school. Of course, this isn’t a clinical trial, just an anecdotal report, but I feel safe and happy in the knowledge that my kids are well nourished and as healthy as they can be. I’m a great believer in nutritional supplements to give me the confidence that my busy boys are getting the nutrients they need on a daily basis, and for us, Swisse has fit the bill really well.
How are you managing with the school and after school routine – do you have any tips you’d like to share?
With thanks to Swisse for sending us a selection of their nutritional supplements for us to review.
I’ve loved reading several posts from Topsy Turvy Tribe recently. This wonderful family have….well I don’t want to be a spoiler, just go and see. Needless to say, they are having a great adventure and I really admire them. Home for them is wherever they are together.
Finally, whilst speaking about home I have to mention the brilliant Home and Horizon. Take a browse around this great travel and interiors blog, and see this post with money saving tips for updating interiors:
I’m back with more #LittleLoves! This week has been a busy birthday kind of week. My big boy turned 10, and we had our Wedding Anniversary too, so numerous celebrations and lots to love.
Cards, of course! Lots and lots of birthday and anniversary cards. Many bits of paper filled with love and joy. It’s lovely to get cards, especially in these days of Facebook messages and texts. I’m a traditionalist – what can I say?
My big boy chose a trip to the zoo rather than a birthday party this year. He is obsessed with tigers, and particularly wanted to see them, as well as other animals. So we went to Edinburgh Zoo for a special treat, and spent the whole weekend away. It was fabulous to take our time around a very relaxed and uncrowded zoo, and we watched the penguins and otters playing and swimming for ages. We also spent lots of time watching the tigers, who both came right up to the viewing windows in several areas. It was a wonderful experience, and one I know Hugo will never forget. The pandas didn’t make an appearance, but the other animals more than made up for it.
Apart from the Happy Birthday song, which is a joy in itself (especially when played at full pelt in a Chinese restaurant in Edinburgh as a surprise for my big boy!), we’ve been rocking out at Family Makes. My little one, who is 8, is big into rock music, and has a fantastic memory for anything he has heard. He has been looking up and blasting out on YouTube some songs he has previously heard on the radio in the car. His current favourites are Thunderstruck by AC/DC, and Get the Funk Out by Extreme! (I just realised Thunderstruck is on the new Iphone 7 advert too – I wonder if that’s why he remembered it?)
I must admit I’ve been too poorly lately to make much, and the birthday cake was shop-bought. I’m feeling quite Autumnal now though, so out with the crockpot! Today I’ve made a chicken and vegetable soup, and I’ve started preparing for a sausage casserole for tomorrow. I love slow cooker cooking – it’s so easy! My friend says it’s like someone else made dinner for you!
It’s not enough that my big boy has gone into double figures, but he’s also grown up enough to be off to camp with school next week! I’ve therefore taken a quick trip to Tesco to get him some jogging trousers and tops which we don’t mind getting trashed during outdoor activities. Luckily some of them were in the sale too. We can hardly complain about mud stains for £6 a pair! I also bought him some cheap trainers, as he’s not taking his new Addidas birthday shoes with him. The big shock was that I had to get him a size 5! That’s my shoe size!!
We’ve has such a busy and tiring week that we’ve hardly had time to reflect on either our Anniversary or our son’s big birthday. I do like to get a bit sentimental at times, but at other times I find that things which ought to get me all emotional actually flash by in a whirl. That’s what photos are for, I feel, so we can look back and reflect afterwards. Perhaps even find some time to blog about it??!